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SOKOLY (So-koh-wee)! The first time I heard the name of my grandfather’s birthplace was from my father’s cousin, Marie. She lived in Paris, was a doctor, medical researcher, and reputedly a Polish Countess. Now what, you might ask, does my distant cousin and Polish Countess have to do with the story of Max Golanski?
In 1989, when I traveled to Poland on behalf of Chicago’s Spertus Museum, I stopped in Paris to ask Marie to fill in missing blanks regarding our family heritage. Grandpa Ross had arrived in the United States as a young man seeking to leave Russia rather than face the mandatory 12-year military service required of Jews. (Non-Jews served four years for the Czar.) He had followed his brother Willie to this country via Ellis Island, and couldn’t remember our family’s original last name, or why his brother had selected the surname Ross. Fortunately, Cousin Marie remembered names and places that helped round out our family lore.
When Great Uncle Willie arrived at Ellis Island, Immigration officials asked where he was from and without hesitation he replied, “Białystok” (Bee-al-i-stok). When asked his last name he said, “Białystokski” (Bee-al-i-stos-kee), which translates “from the Białystok region.” Białystok shifted between Russian and Polish rule over a period of several hundred years.
Immigration officials decided that Great Uncle Willie was either confused, or his name was too difficult to pronounce, so asked him to select “an American name.” Of course, he didn’t know any “American names,” so when an attractive female Immigration worker walked past he pointed to her and asked, “Vat’s her name?” in a thick Yiddish accent. “ROSS!” Without hesitation he said, “If it’s good enough for her, it’s good enough for me. I’ll take it!” And so my Eastern European Jewish family had a new, Scottish surname.
And SOKOLY? Once Marie related the story regarding our family name she also remembered our family’s village. Upon arriving in Poland I hired a driver to take me to the town (25 miles from Białystok). Sokoly was a modest farming community of 3,500 people, distinguished by an impressive Catholic church in the town’s center. Surprisingly, my visit generated substantial excitement as word quickly spread that an American Jew was visiting. People poured from their homes to meet me, saying “No ‘Shoah.’ We like Jews!” I later discovered that the 9 1/2-hour film “Shoah,” by Claude Lanzmann, had recently found its way to Sokoly. Residents seemed to feel that by convincing one Jew that not all Poles were anti-Semitic, they absolved themselves of participation in the Holocaust to all the Jews of the world.
Pulled into the kitchen of a humble farmer and his wife, I sat with them seeking the answer to my one burning question: “What happened to the Jews of Sokoly?” Their response was translated for me by my Polish driver, and the tape was donated to the Chicago Jewish Archives.
Years later, the Internet made possible more extensive research. I was surprised to discover that Sokoly had been a renowned center of Jewish scholarship, claiming many doctors, scientists, literary scholars and other distinguished native sons and daughters. The majority of Sokoly’s survivors immigrated to Israel. A few others came to the States. As one might expect, their stories were markedly different from the farmer’s original tale. Folding differing perspectives of my impressions visiting in 1989, the farmer’s story, and researched testimony of Sokoly’s Jewish Survivors into a fictionalized tale gave birth to several chapters in GOLANSKI’S TREASURES.
As for my family’s Polish Countess? A story onto itself for another time!
Hi I m from Poland and looking to find some help with my surname Golanski, my family is from Easter Poland place called Siemiatycze, grandparents died long time ago and my father don know much about family history
Hello There! I was surprised to receive your message. My character, Max Golanski, is a fictional character, born out of my imagination. I’m afraid that I can’t really tell you anything about its derivation, as I thought I was making it up, until years after I began writing. It wasn’t until then that the Internet was born, and I was able to search the name and realize that it actually existed. I wish you all the best of luck in your search, but I truly don’t know how to direct you. Perhaps you can contact some genealogical expert to discover more. Where do you live in Poland?
Thanks Sue. I appreciate your response. What I know from my own travels in foreign lands is my assumptions of what is being said or translated and what the real story might be! It’s so complex and so ripe with emotion. Carole
Beautifully stated. All we can do is serve as filters for life’s experiences.
Way to go, Sue! I’m totally captivated and can’t wait to read your next installment. My grandparents were from Budapest and I’ve always wanted to go there and see what I could find out. I don’t know what their name was either so I haven’t pursued it. I think your writing and story is just wonderful.
Best, Kathy
Ahh . . . Budapest! I haven’t been there, but can tell you that it’s known as the Paris of Eastern Europe. Originally two cities combined, I believe. I was fortunate my mother and (father’s side) cousins had some basic information. I also knew my father’s parents when I was young and early on started taking notes. Might anyone in your family have information on either side? You never know! Thanks for your enthusiasm — it means a lot.
I wish I knew so much about my own family history! How lucky you are!
I didn’t know that Poles were anti-Semitic, although I suppose the only Poles we met were on our tours of the concentration camps. I’m interested to read about what happened to the Jewish people of Sokoly.
Many Jewish people of Eastern European extraction are hardly able to find out anything about their families due to the destruction not only of people, but places and records. My base of knowledge only goes back two generations and is limited at that. Fortunately, the Internet has helped. No group of people are “one way or the other.” There are many stories of heroic efforts by Polish people as well as those from many other nations, who risked their lives (many were killed for their efforts). Sadly, there is substantial historic information that Jews often encountered anti-Semitism in Poland, the Ukraine and Russia — not to mention other countries too numerous to mention. It’s important to maintain a balanced outlook, not to gloss over the anti-Semitism that existed, but never to consider any group as harboring a particular leaning — good or bad. Poles you met touring the camps had the additional insight of what it was like to be victimized by the Nazis. Hitler’s intent was to destroy Poland so as to annex the land and populate it with Germans or those with Aryan features he could “Germanize” (e.g. convert to the philosophy of the Third Reich).
I knew about why Grandpa Ross said that the family name was Bialystokski, but I never heard the rest of the story. I knew that you had made a pilgrimage when you were in Poland, but I thought it was to Bialystok! What a priceless story! Thanks, so much, Sis, for sharing it!
Actually, I did visit Bialystok as well, but it was Sokoly that touched my heart. If it weren’t for Marie, I would never have learned either our original last name or that of the town. We’ve got to grab our elders’ stories while they’re with us and pass them on! I hope everyone does the same within their own families.
I appreciate reading your story and learning about your family in Poland. Your poignant depiction of your reception into Sokoly by those who lived there was interesting. I guess I’m wondering if your comment about absolution of the Holocaust of Jews is something that you were told or was an assumption? My skeptical knickers were suddenly in a bunch. But, maybe that was my own non-Jewish self questioning history I have little clear knowledge of. Don’t stop now! You’ve got me spell-bound! Really!
Thanks for your question, Carole. My feelings were completely subjective. The experience of encountering people pulling at my shirtsleeves asking me to hear them out was heartbreaking. From what I could discern through my driver/translator, an American Jew visiting Sokoly was an extraordinary event — especially one traveling on business for a renowned American institution of Jewish Studies. If you’re familiar with “SHOAH,” you may know that overall, Polish people were not viewed in a positive light by Lanzmann. Pogroms were part of the region’s history, whether Russian Cossacks, anti-Semitic Poles, Ukranians, or others. Many were complicit in turning Jews over to the Nazis and supported Hitler’s Final Solution. Some of those I spoke with may very well have been anti-Semites who eagerly took possession of Jewish properties once their former owners had been taken away . . . others may have been the good Christian people who put their own lives on the line to help shelter Jews. ALL seemed eager to be perceived on the side of the angels, and I believe they felt that I might be as close as they’d ever come to saying “I didn’t help the Nazis — I’m not an anti-Semite — there are still good Polish people,” to a person of the Jewish faith. (It is estimated that there are only 5,000 to 20,000 Jews remaining in Poland today.) This encounter has been incorporated in my novel, and I hope it provokes equally stimulating dialogues! Thanks!